How to tell your children, according to the people who study it
What child and family therapists actually recommend for the conversation parents dread most, broken down by age.
Journal
Writing about the hard middle part
Not thought leadership. The four or five things we end up explaining most often, written down properly so you can read them at eleven at night.
Divorce
The first week: seven things worth doing, and four that can wait
A short, practical list for the week you decide a marriage is ending, written to stop you from doing the things that are hard to undo.
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Custody
MoneyWhat a divorce actually costs in Portland, with real numbers
An honest breakdown of family law fees in Multnomah County: what drives the bill up, what brings it down, and where the money genuinely goes.
Estate planningThe most common estate planning mistake in Oregon, by a distance
A living trust that was drafted but never funded does almost nothing. Here is how to tell whether yours was, in about ten minutes.
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